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I can´t believe I´m turning 46 today! ✨Things I´ve learned in my 40s:✔ At 41 I learned that we are one breath away from death. Giving birth to my third child I had 30% blood loss: a class 3 hemorrhage. I literally saw the light; it was like being in Cinema Paradiso and the film consisted of my own family pictures. This experience made me realize what matters most: in my case my family and friends.✔ I turned 43 in 2019, the year I decided to look after myself. I started to search for the ¨place where I belong¨ after joining what I thought was just a "communication course", but that immersed me in the world of personal development.✔ I was laid off at 44. The day that happened I was terrified, but the following I experienced freedom like never before. I learned that what you fear now might be your blessing later. Go with the flow! 🌼✔ My latest learning is that being balanced doesn´t mean being boring. I might not reach the same heights as before, but I´m savoring more than ever the simple pleasures of life, like eating this delicious cake or celebrating with friends tonight!Have a great weekend!

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